Parent-controlled from start to finish

New Friends Are Waiting

Build community. Make playdates easier.

FamilyFriendFinder helps parents and guardians find compatible families and friendship opportunities for children ages 2-20, based on location, interests, activities, age, and more.

FamilyFriendFinder is parent-controlled. Children do not create accounts or communicate independently.

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Watch: FamilyFriendFinder in 2 Minutes

A short introduction to how parents and guardians use the service.

How FamilyFriendFinder Works

Six simple steps, all of them under your control.

  1. Step 1

    Create your parent account

    You register as the parent or legal guardian and verify your email. Children never create accounts.

  2. Step 2

    Set your location

    Share your location or enter it manually. Only an approximate distance is ever shown to other families.

  3. Step 3

    Add a profile for each child

    Use a first name or nickname, an age, interests, activities and availability - you choose every detail.

  4. Step 4

    See compatible families nearby

    We suggest families within your chosen radius, with a simple compatibility score to help you compare.

  5. Step 5

    Express interest, then talk parent-to-parent

    When both parents are interested, a private conversation opens between the two of you.

  6. Step 6

    Arrange a playdate on your terms

    Decide together what to plan, where to meet, and whether to share contact details at all.

Every Age From 2 to 20

Friendship matters at two and it matters at twenty. Parents set the age range they want, and every child profile is created and controlled by a parent or legal guardian.

Illustration of a two-year-old girl holding a teddy bear
Illustration of a two-year-old boy holding a toy truck

Age 2

Illustration of a three-year-old girl holding a balloon
Illustration of a three-year-old boy holding a toy dinosaur

Age 3

Illustration of a four-year-old girl reading a picture book
Illustration of a four-year-old boy holding a toy airplane

Age 4

Illustration of a five-year-old girl holding a crayon
Illustration of a five-year-old boy holding building blocks

Age 5

Illustration of a six-year-old girl holding a paintbrush
Illustration of a six-year-old boy holding a soccer ball

Age 6

Illustration of a seven-year-old girl with a jump rope
Illustration of a seven-year-old boy reading a picture book

Age 7

Illustration of an eight-year-old girl in a soccer jersey
Illustration of an eight-year-old boy holding a telescope

Age 8

Illustration of a nine-year-old girl holding a tablet
Illustration of a nine-year-old boy holding a skateboard

Age 9

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Illustration of a ten-year-old boy with a baseball glove

Age 10

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Illustration of an eleven-year-old boy holding a basketball

Age 11

Illustration of a twelve-year-old girl holding a soccer ball
Illustration of a twelve-year-old boy holding chess pieces

Age 12

Illustration of a thirteen-year-old girl with headphones
Illustration of a thirteen-year-old boy wearing a bike helmet

Age 13

Illustration of a fourteen-year-old girl holding a guitar
Illustration of a fourteen-year-old boy holding a running shoe

Age 14

Illustration of a fifteen-year-old girl holding a sketchbook
Illustration of a fifteen-year-old boy holding a volleyball

Age 15

Illustration of a sixteen-year-old girl holding a camera
Illustration of a sixteen-year-old boy holding a soccer ball

Age 16

Illustration of a seventeen-year-old girl holding a sketchbook
Illustration of a seventeen-year-old boy wearing headphones

Age 17

Illustration of an eighteen-year-old young woman holding a laptop
Illustration of an eighteen-year-old young man holding a basketball

Age 18

Illustration of a nineteen-year-old young woman holding a camera
Illustration of a nineteen-year-old young man holding books

Age 19

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Illustration of a twenty-year-old young man holding a guitar

Age 20

These are illustrations created for this page. They are not members of FamilyFriendFinder and do not represent real children.

Parent-Controlled From Start to Finish

The architecture itself makes child accounts impossible. Every search, request, message and decision belongs to the parent or legal guardian who holds the account.

  • Children cannot register, sign in, or search.
  • Children have no private profile and no private messaging.
  • A child is shown only as a first name or nickname with an age.
  • Birth dates, surnames and exact addresses are never shown to another family.
  • You can pause a child profile at any time without deleting it.
  • Report, block and remove tools are available on every profile and conversation.

Find Families Near You

Search within 1, 5, 10, 25, 50 or 100 miles - or look at another town before you travel. Other families see only an approximate distance such as 2.4 miles away.

Match by Interests and Activities

Soccer, LEGO, art, coding, hiking, homeschool groups and dozens more. Shared interests, languages, personality and availability all shape the compatibility score.

Safe Parent-to-Parent Communication

Private Parent Messaging opens only after both parents express interest. No email address or phone number is shared automatically.

Create Multiple Child Profiles

One account, one profile per child, each with its own interests, preferred friend age range and availability.

Match by Interests and Activities

Sports

SoccerBasketballBaseballHockeyTennisSwimmingGymnasticsMartial ArtsVolleyballGolf

Outdoor

HikingCampingFishingNatureAnimalsParksBeachesBoating

Creative

ArtDrawingPaintingCraftsPhotographyMusicSingingDanceTheaterWriting

Academic

ScienceMathReadingHistoryLanguagesCodingRoboticsAstronomy

Games

Board GamesChessPuzzlesStrategy GamesLEGOBuilding

Social

PlaydatesGroup ActivitiesSports TeamsClubsHomeschool GroupsCommunity Activities
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Private Parent Messaging

Conversations happen between verified parent and guardian accounts only. You are shown as your first name; your child is shown as the nickname you chose. Nothing else is revealed unless you decide to share it.

FamilyFriendFinder Parent

"Hi, I'm Sarah. My son Jack is 9 and loves soccer and LEGO. I saw that your child has similar interests - would you like to meet at the park on Saturday?"

Report, block and end-conversation controls are always one tap away.

Frequently Asked Questions

Ready to find friends for your child?

Create your parent account and add your first child profile in a few minutes.